The Kinky Side of Sex

See here for original post:  https://bj_frazier.bdsmlr.com/post/51616688

Many of you have sent notes about the helpfulness of the original post (see above link).  While I thank you all for sharing your stories...I'm sorry many of you didn't get a chance to read it before you tested this toy!

In speaking with you, too, I realized I had forgotten a critical section ~ the release!

Clamps, per their name, *clamp* off the blood supply.  I'm sure you can all relate to having your foot (or other body part) fall asleep at one point or another.  Say you were sitting with a foot under you, watching TV for a long while when, all of a sudden, you stand up to go to the bathroom...only to sit right back down because your foot's asleep!

Sitting on it had stopped the blood flow to the foot.  Once released, blood tries to make up for lost time by crashing into the affected area, thereby creating that pins and needles weird pain--debilitating and agonizing.

Now apply the same situation to nipples.  They're already sensitive.  Removing the blood flow with the clamps and then releasing same will increase that pain level astronomically!

To alleviate this pain (or not, for pain sluts), gently rub the area around the clamps first.  This will stimulate the blood flow and slow down the *rush* from release.

Mind you, gentle stimulation will not erase all the pain.  That's why it's best to distract the sub right before removing (or yanking off) the clamps.

My favorite distraction is to ride him cowgirl.  During the build-up, I'll lean in to rub his nips and surrounding area.  Then, I like to tug them off just as he's cumming.  [if you need help with the timing; have him call out right before he's about to cum or make him beg for permission!]

The intense pain--and make no mistake; the pain is exquisite--will mix with the orgasmic pleasure enough to make him willing, and possibly even eager, to thrust out his nips to be clamped in the future!

It's also nice to apply some type of balm after heavy nipple play to aid the healing.  This doesn't have to be expensive but it *does* need to be fragrance-free!  Many additives will sting the affected area, causing more pain and no healing [again, something to consider in reverse for pain sluts].

My personal balm of choice is Eucerin!

If you've read this entire post, congrats and thank you.  If you found it helpful, send me a note.

DM me and tell me about your experience with nipple clamps; either as a sub or a dom(me).  I love to chat!

Happy playing,

~B.J.